TIPS for a Pleasant FIRST TIME…

Published in: “What Women Want” magazine, issue November/December 2013

When you’re having sex for the first time, the excitement may be over- powering, but at the same time, it’s very easy to let anxiety take over you too. There’s always a first time for everything in life, but even the smallest of worries can seem scarier when it’s a first experience.

So before you jump into bed, here are a few things that can defi- nitely help ease the anxiety, and improve the pleasure!

Facts and tips:

Breakage of the hymen does not always translate to a large quantity of blood; in fact, sometimes there can be no blood at all.
For most girls, one of the most stressful worries of first time sex is the pain associated with it. Many girls don’t actually feel any pain at all the first time they have sexual intercourse. Very few girls actually experience pain that’s unbearable.
The chances of experiencing an or- gasm the very first time you have sex may be low, so don’t keep your expectations high.

The position:

The best sexual position for your first night is the Missionary Position, in which you lie on your back with legs spread out. Try placing a cushion under the bottom of your back.
Your partner should be lying on top of you with his weight concentrated on his elbows and not directly on you. He should enter his penis inside your vagina gently to ease the process and avoid any hard thrusting.

In certain cases where the hymen is just broken and not completely removed,itcanbecompletelyre- moved during the delivery of your firstchild.Thistypeofhymenis either elastic or the labial type.

How to make Missionary more enjoyable:

Slip a pillow under your hips; this will change the angle of penetration and how intercourse feels for both of you. You can also raise your legs, spread them apart or pull them together tightly, have them wrapped around your partner. Each position affords a different series of sensations.

Since missionary allows for so much skin to skin contact, add a little massage oil to your foreplay and enjoy a slippery session like you’re never experienced before.

Engage in clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is a highly sensitive bundle of nerves and direct contact with no warm up is extremely jarring to most women.

Practical tips for losing your virginity:

Create an understanding and cooperative environment. Be patient and communicate with each other, and always remember that there is no rush. To avoid first day failures or disappointments, read up and ask medical specialists, and always remember that the process is not a test.

The first night of marriage should see the couple privately convening after the wedding party. Communicate with the families your need for privacy and stress to them that no proof is needed for a bride’s chastity. This tradition alone contributes heavily to failure to intimately connect.

The place where the couple’s first sexual relationship happens should be intimate and quiet, since loud and noisy voices may distract you.

To ease the penetration process, you can use an ointment or intimate oils, which can be easily purchased from pharmacies.
It’s alright to feel anxious about the first time. Take it slow, and let your passion and instincts guide the way. Relax!
If the hymen is thick, hard and impossible to be broken in the traditional way – no matter how hard the couple tries – there is no need to be shy or to despair. Seek medical specialists who routinely break hard hymens via simple surgical tactics using local anesthesia. These operations usually take no more than a few minutes and have no side-effects or complications.

8 thoughts on “TIPS for a Pleasant FIRST TIME…

  1. When some one searches for his necessary thing, thus he/she desires to be available that in detail,
    thus that thing is maintained over here.

  2. of course like your website however you need to test the spelling on several of your
    posts. Many of them are rife with spelling issues and I to find it very bothersome to inform the
    truth nevertheless I’ll definitely come again again.

  3. If some one wants to be updated with most up-to-date technologies then he must be visit this web site and be up to
    date everyday.

  4. Hey There. I found your weblog the usage of msn. This is
    a really neatly written article. I’ll be sure to bookmark it and return to learn extra of your useful info.
    Thanks for the post. I will certainly return.

  5. I’m not sure why but this web site is loading incredibly slow for me.
    Is anyone else having this problem or is it a issue on my end?

    I’ll check back later on and see if the problem still exists.

  6. I don’t even know how I finished up here, but I assumed
    this publish used to be good. I do not know who you
    are but certainly you’re going to a well-known blogger if you happen to
    are not already. Cheers!

  7. I’ve learn some just right stuff here. Certainly worth bookmarking for revisiting.
    I wonder how so much effort you set to make one of these great informative website.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s