They say that reality is just a state of mind, but how to deal with a busy mind.
There are many things can make up a busy mind such as emotions, anxieties, fears, joys, relationships, etc.
You need to work with your mind and learn to drop your thoughts. Drop all these busyness, even if it may feel like you need to work on their content, it is ok to drop thoughts for a while.
Remember that busy mind leads us to do things to ease our pain in excess as watching too much TV, drink, emotional eating,feeling sick, etc..
It’s important that we learn to make compromises with our mind and not sit down with the discomfort. We need to learn when to stop chasing our problems.
Usually I know that I just needed to work less, relax more or generally revamp my circumstances and relationships in order to be empty my mind or live in peace.
But I also believe in the power of communication:
- Sometimes all you need is sit down and write everything that is weighing you down mentally and then burn it and decide to let it go.
- Speak up about the difficult experiences you passed as at that moment you will see them as useful and empowering instead of something to stress you out.
- Tell someone how their actions affected you badly instead of holding it in and getting false conclusions.
In the end I always try to remember who I really want to be and I rather free my mind, grow, learn, express my emotions and thoughts freely. I won’t let my mind run on and on endlessly 😉